Bangalore Darshan

Every single day only gets over when its purpose of existence is met. There is never a day in anyone's life which comes without a lesson. Both happy and sad days have their own lessons moulded in the form of emotion and experience.

My life in Bangalore is teaching me more about life than about books of so-called knowledge. I have learnt more in just this one year than I already had learnt in the last three years. Just like a friend very rightly said, "Just when you think you have met the biggest bitch or asshole in your lifetime, comes up a bigger one!" Similarly, I had thought that I had dealt with the biggest problems of life in the last three years but my life proves me wrong and teaches me new lessons. But I am highly satisfied with myself because I have successfully survived in Bangalore and the kind of life here for one complete year!

Sitting alone only makes me go over and over the lessons I learn.

If I ever come across insensitive people again, I will make myself numb.
If I ever set up any organisation or institution, I will not act as a hypocrite just because I am in power.
If I ever become a project leader of any sort, I will not bask in pride of getting the post and walk around behaving very rudely. Neither will I force everyone to follow my plan even if someone else has a better one!
If I ever become a mother of a boy, the first thing I will teach him is to respect the female gender no matter how they are.
And if I ever become a mother of a girl, the first thing I will teach her is to not insult another female and second most important thing would be to teach her not to sleep around just to achieve something materialistic.
If I am ever born as a boy, I would like to turn into a man by learning to respect women and to keep alive the age-old word "chivalry" through my actions. I would not take pride in becoming a man by being able to have a firm erection just by seeing a big set of boobs or by a  perfect figure of the opposite gender. I would not take pride in becoming a man by demanding a pleasure ride from any girl who asks for my help, or when she is not in her consciousness because of whatever reasons.
If I am ever born as a girl again, I would like to see a world full of dignified ladies so that I will not have see other women slaughtering their souls, and feel disgusted at the fact that I am also a woman.
I will not be a hypocrite of a mentor or teacher who only favours the asslickers.
If I ever become the high command or any authority, I will understand the independance of 22-24 year olds need and that they can't be forced into doing anything.
I will not only earn respect but also preach that respect needs to be earned and not forced.
I would take admission in an institute or appeal to organisations which will only be interested in my professional life and won't barge into my personal space robbing the happiness off the faces of my loved ones.
If I am ever born as a bus conductor in Bangalore, I will not jump on every girl as soon as she boards the bus to ask for the fare. I will not squeeze myself among the girls in a crowded bus to take the fares.
If I am born as a localite in any of the South Indian cities, I will take the pain of learning English and Hindi with the correct accent. And I will not harass the people from far away lands by deliberately not speaking in English or Hindi. If I am a restaurant owner or a cook, I will not add coconut and curry patta even in the North Indian dishes where they are absolutely not necessary. I will not get seduced by seeing a pair of bare white legs just because I have never seen white and bare legs before!


And most importantly,
If I be born as a human being ever again, I would like to be born among humans in the true sense and not savage creatures wearing the costume mere costumes of human beings.